Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Nenek

They always said, time will heal the pain.......but they never said how long it will take.

It has been  year since Nenek passed away. I never did blog about the passing of my nenek. Maybe because I was just too busy with everything that was going on or maybe because I was still in denial or maybe I was just feeling guilty that I did not spend as much time as I should with her once I got married.

I missed the times when I can just picked up the phone and called her to tell her what is going.

My nenek, the matriarch of the family. We never did realise, until she was gone, that she was the glue that kept us together. Without her, we are all just bits and pieces........and things never did get back to the way it used to be.

But everyday, I am grateful. I am blessed to have so many people to love. I am grateful that I get to spend 31 years with her. As the eldest grandchild, I get to do so many first things with her. I am very lucky cos she was there for my engagement, wedding, she get to meet my 2 girls....yes I am lucky.

Although my nenek had a difficult life in the beginning, I know that she is love by many. and the loss of her, we can never replace. Now all we are left are just memories.......







This is the one pic that I love most, Nenek with Naira............